Are you the person that believes that everything happens for a reason?
Could there be timing or a lesson in what has happened to you?
Could everything that has and is happening in your life be avoided by the choices that you make daily.
Pay attention to whats happening around you and in your life. These could be signs to guide you to your next level. Remember whats happening now is only temporary and life goes on with or without you.
Sometimes we spend our lifetime living in the past and we never leap forward which is why many suffer from depression because they just can't let go of the past.
Its okay to let go and still remember.